A few others have said it already, but I recommend getting an HSA. It is basically a super high deductible (I think $7500) plan, and everything else is 100% out of pocket. Maximum out of pocket is 7500 for the whole family. Maximum coverage is something super high, $2-3 million.
It is $273/month. It kind of sucks paying $273/month and still have to pay 100%, but it was really the best deal out there. I was paying $675/month on my old COBRA deal from my previous employer. I hardly went to the doctor, nor did my wife and kids.
As long as we stay healthy I am at least money ahead, and if I get in a car wreck or cancer of something, my family won't go into bankruptcy.
I recommended having at least the deductible amount saved up.
Everything dollar you spend for health care is tax deductible (acutally you fill the account with pre tax dollars). It is kind of refreshing to just pay you bill from the doctor and be done with it. Dealing with HMO's sucks.
Try to find a doctor group that works with you plan, they often offer discounts even if you pay 100%. If you are paying 100% out of pocket but aren't on a plan, then you generally don't get the discounts.
Makes you think about preventive care more. $100/year to get your teeth cleaned is a lot less expensive (and less painless) than a root canal.
Good luck and stay healthy.