The %RH inside your space is dependent on the amount of moisture in the outside infiltrating fresh air plus the moisture the occupants add minus the moisture removed by your a/c.
Outdoor air in your area is dry this time of year. The outdoor dew dew point is +-20^F. Warming up 20^F dew point air to 70^F results in a <20%RH in the warm space. You are adding enough moisture to humidify the air upto 60%RH. This means you are not getting enough fresh air to pass through our home. A healthy space needs a fresh air change every 4-5 hours to purge indoor pollutants and renew oxygen. Cracking windows when dry outside will remove the moisture from the occupants. Good design would have a small mechanical fresh air ventilation/filteration device that would operate when occupied.
This is a two edged sword, fresh air change purges pollutants and renews oxygen while drying when the outdoor dew points are low. Also makes the home damp when the outdoor dew points are high during the 3 damp seasons of the year. During the hottest weather, a properly setup a/c will maintain <50%RH while removing the sensible heat in the space. During damp cool weather a small whole house dehumidifier will remove the excess moisture from adequate fresh air and occupants moisture. In the old days, buildings leaked more air and people just lived with too dry and too wet air air passing through the space.
Condos and well built modern home currently being built need mechanical fresh air plus a humidifier and a dehumidifier when located in a green grass climate with occasoinal snow.
Start by cracking windows operating exhaust fans to lower the indoor %RH. When the oudoor dew point rises above 55^F, dehumidification will be needed.
The long term solution is a small whole house dehumidifier with fresh air ventilation option, Check out Ultra-Aire.com.
If to dry in the winter consider adding a humidifier also.
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Regards Teddy Bear